Feb. 18, 2025
Church Chronicles: Ep 3: Valentine's Day Myths vs. Biblical Truth about Love
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In this episode of Church Chronicles with the Diary of Black Women, host Connie Morris delves into the intricate layers of Valentine's Day and its contrast with Biblical teachings on love. We explore the historical pagan origins of this widely celebrated holiday and how the Christian church rebranded it into a celebration of love and sacrifice.
Moving beyond romanticized gestures and commercialism, we look at how love is presented in the Bible, exploring its profound, enduring nature as opposed to the temporary thrill of material gifts. We reflect on scriptures such as 1 Corinthians 13, which highlights the virtues of patience, kindness, and selflessness as true markers of love.
This episode challenges listeners to examine how their perceptions and expressions of love align with God's will, calling for a love that is selfless and rooted in faith. As we navigate Valentine's Day and beyond, we aim to honor God by embodying His love in all our relationships. Join us as we seek to understand and live out true love in our daily lives.
00:09 - Valentine's Day Exploration
01:32 - The World's View of Love
03:09 - Biblical Love Defined
06:44 - Contrasting Perspectives on Love
08:07 - Living Out Biblical Love
10:20 - Upcoming Debate on Valentine's Day
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Welcome back to Church Chronicles with the Diary of the Black Women,
00:00:05.097 --> 00:00:09.197
where we explore the intersection of history, faith, and tradition.
00:00:09.577 --> 00:00:15.617
I'm your host, Connie Morris, and today we're continuing our deep dive into Valentine's Day.
00:00:15.997 --> 00:00:20.117
In our previous episodes, we've uncovered the pagan origins of this holiday.
00:00:20.117 --> 00:00:24.877
In the women festivals of Leprocalia.
00:00:25.077 --> 00:00:30.577
We explore how the Christian church rebranded it into a celebration of St.
00:00:30.977 --> 00:00:36.537
Valentine's, a symbol of love and sacrifice. But as we continue our journey,
00:00:36.897 --> 00:00:41.477
it's crucial to take a step back and ask, how does Valentine's Day,
00:00:41.657 --> 00:00:44.737
as it is celebrated today,
00:00:45.277 --> 00:00:48.737
align with what the Bible teaches us about love?
00:00:48.737 --> 00:00:55.857
Is a commercialized, romantized version of love that we see each year on February
00:00:55.857 --> 00:00:59.437
14th, really what God intended for us.
00:00:59.597 --> 00:01:05.537
In this episode, we'll explore what the Bible says about love,
00:01:05.737 --> 00:01:11.657
how it contrasts with the often superficial, commercialized portrayals of love
00:01:11.657 --> 00:01:18.017
on Valentine's Day, and how we can align our understanding of love with God's word.
00:01:20.037 --> 00:01:23.837
I know people are like, wow, you will be a hater on Valentine's Day.
00:01:24.297 --> 00:01:26.117
Let me continue. Let's go.
00:01:26.597 --> 00:01:31.437
The world's love, the worldview of love and biblical love.
00:01:32.217 --> 00:01:37.477
Valentine's Day has become one of the most commercially successful holidays
00:01:37.477 --> 00:01:45.177
with billions of dollars spent each year on cards, flowers, chocolates, and other gifts.
00:01:45.177 --> 00:01:54.457
The media, advertising, and even social news push the idea that love is about
00:01:54.457 --> 00:01:58.997
grand gestures, romantic dates, and material gifts.
00:01:59.857 --> 00:02:03.917
But is this really love? Let me pause here, right?
00:02:04.397 --> 00:02:08.177
It says the media. It says it's a billion-dollar business.
00:02:08.357 --> 00:02:16.337
Valentine's is a billion-dollar business. The media advertises and even social
00:02:16.337 --> 00:02:20.837
norms push the idea that it's about the grand things,
00:02:21.217 --> 00:02:23.577
the romantic days, and the material gifts.
00:02:23.997 --> 00:02:25.617
But it's really love.
00:02:26.037 --> 00:02:32.497
The worldview of love. And anyway, Valentine Day reflects the worldview of love.
00:02:32.677 --> 00:02:38.817
A love that's often based on emotions, physical attraction, and temporary feelings.
00:02:40.009 --> 00:02:47.589
Wow, it's a love that celebrated through outward displays and gifts,
00:02:47.909 --> 00:02:53.829
but too often it lacks the depth and commitment that true love requires.
00:02:54.809 --> 00:02:59.409
This kind of love can be fleeting, easily swayed by circumstances,
00:02:59.769 --> 00:03:08.509
and sometimes it even becomes more about social expectation than genuine affection.
00:03:09.509 --> 00:03:14.169
Biblical love. In stark contrast, the Bible offers a much deeper,
00:03:14.409 --> 00:03:17.269
richer, and more enduring understanding of love.
00:03:17.649 --> 00:03:21.669
Biblical love is not just an emotion or a fleeting feeling.
00:03:21.849 --> 00:03:26.789
It's a commitment, a choice, and a reflection of God's love for us.
00:03:27.249 --> 00:03:33.909
Let's look at a few scriptures that define what true godly love looks like.
00:03:33.909 --> 00:03:39.729
You know, when we think about the temporary, if you, if, if Valentine's Day
00:03:39.729 --> 00:03:46.389
is an extension of how you really feel every day about the one you truly love, that's a plus.
00:03:46.709 --> 00:03:51.649
But sometimes I notice, and you know, with social media, it can all be a show.
00:03:52.029 --> 00:03:55.129
And if it's a show, we know, right?
00:03:55.349 --> 00:03:58.629
If it's all about a show, what we're doing for Valentine's Day,
00:03:58.949 --> 00:04:03.069
you know, and then we get the camera set up and got all this extra stuff going
00:04:03.069 --> 00:04:07.449
on. But then on that Valentine's Day, as I said, it falls on a Monday.
00:04:07.689 --> 00:04:11.209
On that Tuesday, you're about to argue and fuss and, you know.
00:04:11.549 --> 00:04:17.009
But God says it's a little bit more deeper than that. So let's see what the Bible says about love.
00:04:17.249 --> 00:04:21.769
The Bible is clear and consistent in its teaching about love.
00:04:21.909 --> 00:04:26.789
And these teachings often stand in stark contrast to the romanticized version
00:04:26.789 --> 00:04:29.389
of love that we see on Valentine's Day.
00:04:30.215 --> 00:04:35.735
1 Corinthians 13, verses 4-7 reads, Love is patient.
00:04:36.035 --> 00:04:42.055
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud.
00:04:42.355 --> 00:04:44.635
It does not dishonor others.
00:04:45.035 --> 00:04:51.875
It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of
00:04:51.875 --> 00:04:58.015
wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with truth.
00:04:58.395 --> 00:05:06.995
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.
00:05:07.175 --> 00:05:13.355
This passage often refers to as the love chapter, gives us a clear picture of
00:05:13.355 --> 00:05:14.855
what true love looks like.
00:05:14.855 --> 00:05:20.615
It's not about grand gestures or material gifts, but about patience,
00:05:21.155 --> 00:05:23.595
kindness, humility, and selfishness.
00:05:24.475 --> 00:05:28.455
It's a love that endures through challenges, forgives wrong,
00:05:28.695 --> 00:05:30.875
and seeks the best for others.
00:05:31.415 --> 00:05:37.935
This is the kind of love that reflects God's character and his love for us.
00:05:38.595 --> 00:05:41.415
Ephesians 5.25, husbands love
00:05:41.415 --> 00:05:46.835
your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
00:05:47.275 --> 00:05:49.615
Here we see the love is sacrificial.
00:05:50.455 --> 00:05:56.915
Christ's love for the church was so profound that he was willing to give his life for her.
00:05:57.235 --> 00:06:04.195
This is the model of how we are to love one another, not just in romantic relationships,
00:06:04.195 --> 00:06:07.075
but in all our interactions.
00:06:08.060 --> 00:06:14.900
True love puts others first and is willing to sacrifice for their well-being.
00:06:15.860 --> 00:06:22.860
1 John 4.8 Whoever does not love does not know God because God is love.
00:06:23.140 --> 00:06:29.480
At the core of the Bible teachings on love is the truth that God himself is love.
00:06:29.720 --> 00:06:37.500
Our understanding of love should be guided in our relationship with God and reflect his love for us.
00:06:38.060 --> 00:06:43.160
His love is unconditional, unwavering, and eternal.
00:06:44.480 --> 00:06:50.200
Contrasting Valentine's Day with biblical love, we compare the world's view
00:06:50.200 --> 00:06:57.240
of love, especially as it's portrayed on Valentine's Day, with the biblical view on love.
00:06:57.380 --> 00:07:00.040
The differences are striking.
00:07:01.040 --> 00:07:06.420
The superficiality of Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day often emphasizes the
00:07:06.420 --> 00:07:08.160
outward expression of love.
00:07:08.460 --> 00:07:12.600
Flowers, chocolates, romantic dinners, nothing wrong with that.
00:07:12.940 --> 00:07:16.140
But while there's nothing inherently wrong with these things,
00:07:16.400 --> 00:07:19.480
they can sometimes overshadow the
00:07:19.480 --> 00:07:25.160
true essence of love, which is far more profound than any material gift.
00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:30.520
On Valentine's Day, love is often portrayed as something to be performed,
00:07:30.520 --> 00:07:37.700
a show to be put on for others rather than a sincere and selfless commitment.
00:07:37.980 --> 00:07:43.760
This can lead to a superficial understanding of love where the focus is on what
00:07:43.760 --> 00:07:46.460
we receive rather than what we give.
00:07:47.256 --> 00:07:52.056
The depth of biblical love. In contrast, biblical love is about giving,
00:07:52.396 --> 00:07:53.596
serving, and sacrificing.
00:07:53.816 --> 00:07:58.236
It's about showing kindness and patience. Even when it's complicated,
00:07:58.556 --> 00:08:03.256
it's about seeking the best for others, even at the cost of our comfort.
00:08:03.656 --> 00:08:06.996
It's about commitment, perseverance, and faithfulness.
00:08:07.316 --> 00:08:12.156
As Christians, we are called to live in a way that reflects God's love for us,
00:08:12.336 --> 00:08:16.756
a love that is not based on feelings or external circumstances,
00:08:17.136 --> 00:08:22.596
but on a deep abiding commitment to seek the good of others.
00:08:23.036 --> 00:08:28.596
As we reflect on the differences between Valentine's Day and biblical love,
00:08:28.776 --> 00:08:34.556
it's important to remember that our understanding of love should be shaped by God's word,
00:08:34.976 --> 00:08:39.956
not by cultural traditions or societal expectations.
00:08:40.856 --> 00:08:46.216
Romans 12, 2 reads, Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world,
00:08:46.236 --> 00:08:50.456
but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
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Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is,
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his good, pleasing, and perfect will.
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This verse reminds us that we're called to be different from your will as followers of Christ.
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Our understanding of love, relationship, and how we express our affection should
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be grounded in scripture and guided by the Holy Spirit.
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So as we celebrate, whether on Valentine's Day or any other day,
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let's strive to do it in a way that honors God, reflects his love and align with his will.
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As we conclude today's episode, we see how the world's view of love,
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mainly as it celebrates on Valentine's Day,
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often falls short on the deep sacrificial love that the Bible teaches.
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Often falls short on sacrificial love.
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Valentine's Day, with its emphasis on romance and material expression of affection,
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can sometimes lead us away from the true meaning of love, a love that is patient,
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kind, and selfish and enduring.
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Understanding the difference between cultural notions of love and biblical love
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is essential for us as believers.
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It challenges us to rethink how we express love, not just on Valentine's Day,
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but on every day of our lives.
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In our next episode, we'll tackle the ongoing debate among Christians about
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whether it's appropriate to celebrate Valentine's Day at all,
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given its pagan origins and commercialization.
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We will explore the difference, the differing of perspectives,
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and offering guidance on how to navigate this holiday in a way that honors God.
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Thank you for joining me today on Church Chronicles with the Diary of Black Women podcast.
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I hope this episode has encouraged you to reflect on what true love really means
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and how we can live out that love in our daily lives.
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As we continue this series, I encourage you to seek God's guidance in all your
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relationships, asking him to help you love others as he has loved you.
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If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review,
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and share with others who might be interested in exploring these topics.
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I look forward to our next episode where we'll explore whether Christians should
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celebrate Valentine's Day at all.
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Until then, stay curious, stay faithful, and remember, truth is often more surprising
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than we expect. Until next time.
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Welcome back to Church Chronicles with the Diary of the Black Women,
00:00:05.097 --> 00:00:09.197
where we explore the intersection of history, faith, and tradition.
00:00:09.577 --> 00:00:15.617
I'm your host, Connie Morris, and today we're continuing our deep dive into Valentine's Day.
00:00:15.997 --> 00:00:20.117
In our previous episodes, we've uncovered the pagan origins of this holiday.
00:00:20.117 --> 00:00:24.877
In the women festivals of Leprocalia.
00:00:25.077 --> 00:00:30.577
We explore how the Christian church rebranded it into a celebration of St.
00:00:30.977 --> 00:00:36.537
Valentine's, a symbol of love and sacrifice. But as we continue our journey,
00:00:36.897 --> 00:00:41.477
it's crucial to take a step back and ask, how does Valentine's Day,
00:00:41.657 --> 00:00:44.737
as it is celebrated today,
00:00:45.277 --> 00:00:48.737
align with what the Bible teaches us about love?
00:00:48.737 --> 00:00:55.857
Is a commercialized, romantized version of love that we see each year on February
00:00:55.857 --> 00:00:59.437
14th, really what God intended for us.
00:00:59.597 --> 00:01:05.537
In this episode, we'll explore what the Bible says about love,
00:01:05.737 --> 00:01:11.657
how it contrasts with the often superficial, commercialized portrayals of love
00:01:11.657 --> 00:01:18.017
on Valentine's Day, and how we can align our understanding of love with God's word.
00:01:20.037 --> 00:01:23.837
I know people are like, wow, you will be a hater on Valentine's Day.
00:01:24.297 --> 00:01:26.117
Let me continue. Let's go.
00:01:26.597 --> 00:01:31.437
The world's love, the worldview of love and biblical love.
00:01:32.217 --> 00:01:37.477
Valentine's Day has become one of the most commercially successful holidays
00:01:37.477 --> 00:01:45.177
with billions of dollars spent each year on cards, flowers, chocolates, and other gifts.
00:01:45.177 --> 00:01:54.457
The media, advertising, and even social news push the idea that love is about
00:01:54.457 --> 00:01:58.997
grand gestures, romantic dates, and material gifts.
00:01:59.857 --> 00:02:03.917
But is this really love? Let me pause here, right?
00:02:04.397 --> 00:02:08.177
It says the media. It says it's a billion-dollar business.
00:02:08.357 --> 00:02:16.337
Valentine's is a billion-dollar business. The media advertises and even social
00:02:16.337 --> 00:02:20.837
norms push the idea that it's about the grand things,
00:02:21.217 --> 00:02:23.577
the romantic days, and the material gifts.
00:02:23.997 --> 00:02:25.617
But it's really love.
00:02:26.037 --> 00:02:32.497
The worldview of love. And anyway, Valentine Day reflects the worldview of love.
00:02:32.677 --> 00:02:38.817
A love that's often based on emotions, physical attraction, and temporary feelings.
00:02:40.009 --> 00:02:47.589
Wow, it's a love that celebrated through outward displays and gifts,
00:02:47.909 --> 00:02:53.829
but too often it lacks the depth and commitment that true love requires.
00:02:54.809 --> 00:02:59.409
This kind of love can be fleeting, easily swayed by circumstances,
00:02:59.769 --> 00:03:08.509
and sometimes it even becomes more about social expectation than genuine affection.
00:03:09.509 --> 00:03:14.169
Biblical love. In stark contrast, the Bible offers a much deeper,
00:03:14.409 --> 00:03:17.269
richer, and more enduring understanding of love.
00:03:17.649 --> 00:03:21.669
Biblical love is not just an emotion or a fleeting feeling.
00:03:21.849 --> 00:03:26.789
It's a commitment, a choice, and a reflection of God's love for us.
00:03:27.249 --> 00:03:33.909
Let's look at a few scriptures that define what true godly love looks like.
00:03:33.909 --> 00:03:39.729
You know, when we think about the temporary, if you, if, if Valentine's Day
00:03:39.729 --> 00:03:46.389
is an extension of how you really feel every day about the one you truly love, that's a plus.
00:03:46.709 --> 00:03:51.649
But sometimes I notice, and you know, with social media, it can all be a show.
00:03:52.029 --> 00:03:55.129
And if it's a show, we know, right?
00:03:55.349 --> 00:03:58.629
If it's all about a show, what we're doing for Valentine's Day,
00:03:58.949 --> 00:04:03.069
you know, and then we get the camera set up and got all this extra stuff going
00:04:03.069 --> 00:04:07.449
on. But then on that Valentine's Day, as I said, it falls on a Monday.
00:04:07.689 --> 00:04:11.209
On that Tuesday, you're about to argue and fuss and, you know.
00:04:11.549 --> 00:04:17.009
But God says it's a little bit more deeper than that. So let's see what the Bible says about love.
00:04:17.249 --> 00:04:21.769
The Bible is clear and consistent in its teaching about love.
00:04:21.909 --> 00:04:26.789
And these teachings often stand in stark contrast to the romanticized version
00:04:26.789 --> 00:04:29.389
of love that we see on Valentine's Day.
00:04:30.215 --> 00:04:35.735
1 Corinthians 13, verses 4-7 reads, Love is patient.
00:04:36.035 --> 00:04:42.055
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud.
00:04:42.355 --> 00:04:44.635
It does not dishonor others.
00:04:45.035 --> 00:04:51.875
It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of
00:04:51.875 --> 00:04:58.015
wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with truth.
00:04:58.395 --> 00:05:06.995
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.
00:05:07.175 --> 00:05:13.355
This passage often refers to as the love chapter, gives us a clear picture of
00:05:13.355 --> 00:05:14.855
what true love looks like.
00:05:14.855 --> 00:05:20.615
It's not about grand gestures or material gifts, but about patience,
00:05:21.155 --> 00:05:23.595
kindness, humility, and selfishness.
00:05:24.475 --> 00:05:28.455
It's a love that endures through challenges, forgives wrong,
00:05:28.695 --> 00:05:30.875
and seeks the best for others.
00:05:31.415 --> 00:05:37.935
This is the kind of love that reflects God's character and his love for us.
00:05:38.595 --> 00:05:41.415
Ephesians 5.25, husbands love
00:05:41.415 --> 00:05:46.835
your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
00:05:47.275 --> 00:05:49.615
Here we see the love is sacrificial.
00:05:50.455 --> 00:05:56.915
Christ's love for the church was so profound that he was willing to give his life for her.
00:05:57.235 --> 00:06:04.195
This is the model of how we are to love one another, not just in romantic relationships,
00:06:04.195 --> 00:06:07.075
but in all our interactions.
00:06:08.060 --> 00:06:14.900
True love puts others first and is willing to sacrifice for their well-being.
00:06:15.860 --> 00:06:22.860
1 John 4.8 Whoever does not love does not know God because God is love.
00:06:23.140 --> 00:06:29.480
At the core of the Bible teachings on love is the truth that God himself is love.
00:06:29.720 --> 00:06:37.500
Our understanding of love should be guided in our relationship with God and reflect his love for us.
00:06:38.060 --> 00:06:43.160
His love is unconditional, unwavering, and eternal.
00:06:44.480 --> 00:06:50.200
Contrasting Valentine's Day with biblical love, we compare the world's view
00:06:50.200 --> 00:06:57.240
of love, especially as it's portrayed on Valentine's Day, with the biblical view on love.
00:06:57.380 --> 00:07:00.040
The differences are striking.
00:07:01.040 --> 00:07:06.420
The superficiality of Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day often emphasizes the
00:07:06.420 --> 00:07:08.160
outward expression of love.
00:07:08.460 --> 00:07:12.600
Flowers, chocolates, romantic dinners, nothing wrong with that.
00:07:12.940 --> 00:07:16.140
But while there's nothing inherently wrong with these things,
00:07:16.400 --> 00:07:19.480
they can sometimes overshadow the
00:07:19.480 --> 00:07:25.160
true essence of love, which is far more profound than any material gift.
00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:30.520
On Valentine's Day, love is often portrayed as something to be performed,
00:07:30.520 --> 00:07:37.700
a show to be put on for others rather than a sincere and selfless commitment.
00:07:37.980 --> 00:07:43.760
This can lead to a superficial understanding of love where the focus is on what
00:07:43.760 --> 00:07:46.460
we receive rather than what we give.
00:07:47.256 --> 00:07:52.056
The depth of biblical love. In contrast, biblical love is about giving,
00:07:52.396 --> 00:07:53.596
serving, and sacrificing.
00:07:53.816 --> 00:07:58.236
It's about showing kindness and patience. Even when it's complicated,
00:07:58.556 --> 00:08:03.256
it's about seeking the best for others, even at the cost of our comfort.
00:08:03.656 --> 00:08:06.996
It's about commitment, perseverance, and faithfulness.
00:08:07.316 --> 00:08:12.156
As Christians, we are called to live in a way that reflects God's love for us,
00:08:12.336 --> 00:08:16.756
a love that is not based on feelings or external circumstances,
00:08:17.136 --> 00:08:22.596
but on a deep abiding commitment to seek the good of others.
00:08:23.036 --> 00:08:28.596
As we reflect on the differences between Valentine's Day and biblical love,
00:08:28.776 --> 00:08:34.556
it's important to remember that our understanding of love should be shaped by God's word,
00:08:34.976 --> 00:08:39.956
not by cultural traditions or societal expectations.
00:08:40.856 --> 00:08:46.216
Romans 12, 2 reads, Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world,
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but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
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Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is,
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his good, pleasing, and perfect will.
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This verse reminds us that we're called to be different from your will as followers of Christ.
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Our understanding of love, relationship, and how we express our affection should
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be grounded in scripture and guided by the Holy Spirit.
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So as we celebrate, whether on Valentine's Day or any other day,
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let's strive to do it in a way that honors God, reflects his love and align with his will.
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As we conclude today's episode, we see how the world's view of love,
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mainly as it celebrates on Valentine's Day,
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often falls short on the deep sacrificial love that the Bible teaches.
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Often falls short on sacrificial love.
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Valentine's Day, with its emphasis on romance and material expression of affection,
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can sometimes lead us away from the true meaning of love, a love that is patient,
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kind, and selfish and enduring.
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Understanding the difference between cultural notions of love and biblical love
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is essential for us as believers.
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It challenges us to rethink how we express love, not just on Valentine's Day,
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but on every day of our lives.
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In our next episode, we'll tackle the ongoing debate among Christians about
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whether it's appropriate to celebrate Valentine's Day at all,
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given its pagan origins and commercialization.
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We will explore the difference, the differing of perspectives,
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and offering guidance on how to navigate this holiday in a way that honors God.
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Thank you for joining me today on Church Chronicles with the Diary of Black Women podcast.
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I hope this episode has encouraged you to reflect on what true love really means
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and how we can live out that love in our daily lives.
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As we continue this series, I encourage you to seek God's guidance in all your
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relationships, asking him to help you love others as he has loved you.
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If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review,
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and share with others who might be interested in exploring these topics.
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I look forward to our next episode where we'll explore whether Christians should
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celebrate Valentine's Day at all.
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Until then, stay curious, stay faithful, and remember, truth is often more surprising
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than we expect. Until next time.