April 7, 2026

The Warning: Not Random — The Spiritual Pattern Behind Corruption and Destruction

The Warning: Not Random — The Spiritual Pattern Behind Corruption and Destruction
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The Warning: Not Random — The Spiritual Pattern Behind Corruption and Destruction
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Connie Morris examines a spiritual pattern behind the corruption and destruction of relationships, urging listeners to notice warning signs, submit to God, and choose discernment over emotion. Using scripture and real cases, she outlines how small compromises can grow into devastating outcomes and how to stop them.

This episode offers practical protection—pause for healing, repent and realign with God, and establish spiritual boundaries—calling for awareness, not blame, so cycles can be broken before they end in harm.

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00:19 - Welcome and Bold Beginnings

01:00 - Introducing The Warning Series

01:56 - Understanding Spiritual Patterns

03:56 - Recognizing Corruption’s Hidden Stage

06:51 - The Progression from Corruption to Destruction

09:23 - A Call to Awareness

10:02 - Conversations We Avoid

11:40 - Real Cases, Real Consequences

13:58 - The Pattern is Undeniable

15:36 - Understanding the Source of Harm

18:10 - God’s Strategy for Protection

20:01 - Submission as a Protective Measure

22:31 - Spiritual Laws and Corruption

25:28 - The Heart of God’s Warning

27:06 - Healing Before Connection

29:21 - The Importance of Soul Ties

34:06 - The Call to Repentance

36:25 - Patterns Can Be Broken

37:32 - Closing Thoughts and Encouragement

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Welcome to the Diary of a Black Woman podcast, where we pray bold prayers,

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walk in bold faith, and expect a bold God to show up.

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I'm your host, Connie Morris, and we open every episode with the same unshakable

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confidence Jabez had in 1 Chronicles 4.10.

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Lord, bless me indeed, enlarge my territory, let your hand be with me,

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keep me from evil, and keep me from causing pain. And the Bible says,

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God granted his request.

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So if you're here today, get ready, because we're praying big,

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believing big, and walking in everything God promised. Let's begin.

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Hello, welcome back to the Diary of a Black Woman podcast. I'm your host,

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Connie Morris, and today we're starting a new series.

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It's really a segue off of the single life according to the Bible,

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but this one is titled, The Warning.

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This is not random. The spiritual pattern behind corruption and destruction.

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And I was in prayer, and as you know, sometimes you think that a topic is finished

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and then God is still talking and it's still about the same topic.

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So even though the title has changed, the topic has not changed.

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But this, the tone has changed because the tone is the warning.

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And the warning comes because there's a lot of women actually being unalived

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by someone close to them because they're not making wise decisions.

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And a lot of times we think that it's random.

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And we're going to talk more about why it's not random and how you have a choice.

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So random comes from, it says, the devil walks around as a roaring lion.

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So he's roaring, but he has no teeth.

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But yet women are so afraid of being alone and they're looking for a significant

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other that they're missing the roar.

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And so the foundational scripture for this one is It's found in Galatians 6 verses...

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7 and 8 and 9.

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And I'm going to read it because I want to read it directly from the Bible.

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It tells us that it's in verse 7, Be not deceived, God is not mocked.

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For whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

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For he that soweth to his flesh, shall the flesh reap corruption.

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But he that soweth to the Spirit, shall the Spirit reap life everlasting.

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And let us not be weary in well-doing. For in due season, we should reap if we faint not.

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So what we've been witnessing in the world today and what we've been experiencing,

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I want you to know that's not a coincidence. It's not just life happening.

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There is a pattern, a pattern behind the confusion, a pattern behind the brokenness,

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a pattern behind the repeated cycles that seem to drain, distract,

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and ultimately destroy.

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And if you're not paying attention, you'll mistake it for normal, but it's not normal.

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It's strategic because the corruption doesn't just appear, it develops.

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Destruction doesn't just happen, it follows a path.

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And there are spiritual forces that thrive when that pattern goes unnoticed.

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This message is not here to scare you, it's here to wake you up,

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to shift your awareness, to sharpen your discernment, to help you see what's

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really operating beneath the surface.

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Because once you recognize a pattern, you have a choice to continue in it or to break it.

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This is your warning. Our episode is titled, The Warning. This is not random.

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The spiritual pattern behind corruption and destruction.

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So what we've been witnessing is not a coincidence. It's not bad luck.

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It's not a string of unfortunate disconnected events.

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This is not random. There is a pattern, one that is both spiritual and predictable.

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A pattern that begins quietly, develops subtly, subtly, even tragically when it goes unrecognized.

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So as I sought the Lord concerning what I've been observing,

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especially among single women or relationships that begin with promise,

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end in harm, loss, and in some cases death, I began to understand things,

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something a little bit deeper.

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What appears suddenly in nature has already been developing in the spirit.

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Nothing about destruction is accidental.

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The Word of God makes this clear.

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Galatians 6, 7, 8, which I just read, teaches that we are always sowing whether we realize it or not.

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Every decision, every connection, every compromise is a seed.

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And seeds do not disappear, they develop. Some seeds are sown in loneliness. Some are sown in desire.

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Some are driven by the need to feel seen, chosen, or loved.

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But when those seeds are planted in the flesh, outside of God's covering,

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they do not produce life.

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They produce corruption. And corruption, if left unchecked, does not remain hidden. It matures.

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The hidden stage. When corruption begins.

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Corrosion does not announce itself. It does not come with warning labels or alarms. It whispers.

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It shows up in moments that seem small, ignoring what didn't sit right,

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excusing behavior that should have been questioned, moving forward when God

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said pause, choosing connection over conviction.

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So at this stage, nothing looks dangerous. In fact, it may even look good.

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This is why the word warns us in Proverbs 14, 12.

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There is a way that seems, that appears to be right, but in the end, it leads to death.

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Corruption begins when something that is out of alignment is allowed to take root.

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And once it takes root, it begins to change your perception.

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What once felt wrong starts to feel normal. And what once raised concerns becomes easily overlooked.

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And what once required boundaries now feels negotiable. Corruption doesn't just affect your situation.

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It affects your discernment. The progression from corruption to destruction.

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The Bible outlines this progression clearly. James 1, 14, 15.

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Let me get that out so that you can hear the word of God in your ears.

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I'm talking about how when we begin to compromise, how that compromise is a

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seed and a seed began to grow. Why?

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Because we're reaping into our flesh.

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And that flesh, it reaps corruption.

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We'll get more into corruption as they go. But I want to read James 1, 14.

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And 15. And it tells us here, it says, but every man is tempted when he is drawn

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away of his own lust and enticed.

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Then when lust has conceived, it bringeth for sin, and sin when it is finished, bringeth for death.

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Desire, sin, and death. This is not symbolic. It is a spiritual process.

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Desire is the entry point, a need, a longing, a vulnerability.

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Two, compromise is when corruption begins, a decision to move outside of God's instruction.

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Three, attachment, corruption, defense, emotional, physical,

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and situational entanglement.

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And number four, outcome, destruction, loss, harm, trauma, or even death.

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By the time destruction shows up, the process has already begun.

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Destruction is not the beginning, it is the result.

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As you can see that this process, desire, sin, and death. There's always a way out.

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And so why am I talking about this? Why does this matter? Matter,

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because there's no tricks.

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There's no tricks. If we pay attention to God, he will show you what the devil

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was up to. This pattern must be recognized.

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That's why it matters. What makes this revelation so important is this.

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If you only focus on the outcome, you will miss the origin.

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And if you miss the origin, the pattern will repeat.

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This is why some situations seem to come out of nowhere when in reality they

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have been developing beneath the surface the entire time.

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The enemy does not begin with destruction. He begins with subtle corruption,

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a compromise standard, a misaligned connection, a quiet disobedience.

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Because if corruption can take root, destruction will eventually follow.

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A call to awareness, not condemnation but clarity.

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This is not written to accuse. This is written to awaken.

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Because once you see the pattern, you gain power. Power to pause.

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Power to discern. Power to walk away.

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Power to choose differently. Before corruption becomes destruction.

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And this is the mercy of God. He reveals a pattern so you don't have to repeat the outcome.

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You are no longer powerless.

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This is not random. This is a pattern. And once you recognize it,

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you are no longer powerless against it. Facing the truth we can no longer ignore.

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There are some conversations we avoid because they are uncomfortable.

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Some patterns we ignore because they hit too close to home.

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And some truths we must soften because they require us to look deeper than we

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want to. But this is not one of those moments.

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This is a moment for truth. Across communities, there have been a noticeable

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rise in situations that seem tragic,

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sudden, and unexplainable, particularly involving single women who find themselves

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in relationships that quickly turn harmful, unstable, or even deadly.

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At first glance, these situations appear random.

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Different people, different places, different circumstances.

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But when you look closer, a pattern begins to emerge. Not just a natural pattern,

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but a spiritual one. The Word of God already warns us about this.

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Galatians 6, 7-8 makes it clear that life operates on the principle of sowing and reaping.

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Nothing we entertain, ignore, or participate in is without consequences.

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Every choice is a seed. Every connection is a seed.

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Every compromise is a seed. And over time, those seeds produce something. This is not about fear.

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It's not about blame, and it's not about placing responsibilities on the victim.

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It's about understanding spiritual patterns so that cycles can't be broken before

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they ever reach the final stage.

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Because what we often call uninspected is often something unnoticed,

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and what goes unnoticed often goes unchallenged.

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But once you see it, once you understand it, you are no longer walking blindly.

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You are walking with awareness, with discernment, and with the ability to choose life over destruction.

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The warning, real cases, real consequences.

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When reality confirms the pattern, there is, I got about three cases,

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and you probably have more if you're watching the news.

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Case one, a pregnant teen killed by boyfriend, March 2026 in Philadelphia.

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An 18-year-old woman pregnant with her second child, shot and killed by her boyfriend.

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Reports of abuse, jealousy, and manipulation in the relationship.

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This is exactly the pattern, relationship, instability, violence,

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and death. Case number two, a mother of three,

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Killed by a partner, March 2026, in Connecticut. A woman was beaten to death with a bat.

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Suspected murder-suicide by a partner occurred after a domestic disturbance.

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The pattern is ongoing conflict, escalation, and a fatal outcome.

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Case number three, a woman murdered after stalking relationship, 2026, in Texas.

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The victim went on one date with the man. He became obsessed,

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stalking her for months. Authorities failed to intervene and she was killed.

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Pattern, initial connection, obsession control, ignoring warnings, and death.

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Case number four, domestic relationship murder, 2026 in Australia.

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A woman was killed by someone she knew, charged with a domestic violence-related murder.

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No prior reports, but a relationship existed.

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Pattern, known connection, hidden issues, and fatal outcome.

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What is the pattern in the data? What did the evidence reveal?

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Pregnancy plus violent risk. A pregnant 18-year-old was killed by her partner, but we just mentioned.

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Other reports show pregnancy increases vulnerability in abusive relationships.

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Domestic violence as a leading cause of death.

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A significant portion of female homicides, or they call it femicide in some

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places, involve intimate partners. Abuse often include jealousy.

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Control, escalating violence, and escalating patterns.

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Cases include strangulation, confinement, and weapon assaults.

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Many involve repeated patterns before the final act.

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It doesn't start with destruction. It escalates to it.

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What this confirms, that this pattern is undeniable.

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This is where this message of single life becomes real, undeniable.

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That these are not isolated incidents.

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Different cities, different people, same pattern.

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This is not random. This is repeated.

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The pattern matches the scripture exactly.

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Desire, sin, and death. We are literally seeing this play out in real life.

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Desire, relationship, dysfunction, corruption, death, destruction.

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What the Bible reveals, life is now confirming.

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Warning signs exist before the outcome. Across these cases, there's evidence

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and reports of jealousy.

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Control, obsession, and violence escalation, which means the destruction was

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not sudden, it was developing.

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Recent reports across the country confirms that these situations are not isolated.

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Pregnant women are killed by their partners.

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Women are murdered after a brief relationship that turned obsessive.

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Domestic dispute escalates into deadly violence.

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Even these blind dates that you meet with these guys on a dating app.

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There was an incident in Michigan where this lady, her first date,

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she went on and that was her only date.

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She never lived to tell the story. You have to understand that these incidents are not random.

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This is a manifestation of a spiritual principle already outlined in scripture.

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The warning continues. This is not a victim blaming. I want you to make that,

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I want to make that clear.

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It's not about blaming victims. This is not about placing responsibility on those who are harmed.

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This is about exposing a pattern and identifying the true source.

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Understanding the source.

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The word tells us in 1 Peter 5.8 to be alert and sober-minded.

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Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

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This is the enemy's pattern. He studies vulnerability.

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He exploits emotional openings. He uses deception, control, and manipulation.

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He escalates situations over time. This is not a coincidence. This is not random.

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This is a strategy. So what does this mean?

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What we are seeing is not random behavior. It's not isolated incidents.

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It is a pattern of targeting, deception, and gradual escalation.

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Because the enemy does not begin with destruction.

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He begins with corruption. A conversation that feels harmless.

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A connection that feels exciting.

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A situation that feels manageable until it's not.

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Why this must be said? Why am I doing a part two to a single message? Single message.

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Because this brings about clarity and not condemnation. Because without clarity,

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patterns remain hidden.

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Warning signs are overlooked.

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Cycles continue, and when the pattern is exposed, awareness increases,

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discernment sharpens, and decisions change.

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A spiritual reality.

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There is an adversary who watches for opening, moves through misalignment,

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operates through deception.

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Not everything that looks like love is safe. Not everything that feels right

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is from God, and this is why awareness matters.

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Responsibility versus blame. So let's make this clear.

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The responsibility for harm always belongs to the one who chooses to harm.

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Abuse is never justified.

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Violence is never excused. But awareness is still necessary because awareness

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helps prevent repeated patterns.

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This is not about blaming victims. This is about revealing patterns,

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recognizing warning signs, and understanding spiritual strategies so that what

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has been will not be repeated.

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It doesn't have to continue.

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Because there is a strategy from the enemy, there must also be a strategy for protection.

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What is the strategy for protection?

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Submission is protection. If the enemy has a strategy, then God has one too.

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God's strategy is not complicated, but it's often misunderstood.

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James 4, 7 tells us, submit yourselves then to God.

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Resist the devil and he will flee from you. The scripture gives a clear order.

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Submit to God, resist the devil, he will flee.

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Many try resisting without submitting and wonder why nothing changes.

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What submission really means? Submission is not weakness. It's not control.

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It's not losing yourself.

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Submission is alignment. It means choosing God's way over your feelings,

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honoring conviction over connection, obeying even when it's uncomfortable,

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trusting God's direction over your own desires.

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Submission says, God, I will follow you even when I don't fully understand.

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So why does submission protect you? Submission closes the door that the enemy

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needs access to because the enemy operates through disobedience,

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compromise, emotional vulnerability without discernment.

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And when you submit to God, your standards change, your discernment sharpens,

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Your decisions slow down. Your awareness increases.

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Submission creates spiritual boundaries. It's those boundaries you can't even see.

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You just know I should go home and you go home. And then you hear a story about

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someone who went on a date with that person

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and what happened. It saves your life. So when you begin to submit to God,

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it sets up this imaginary boundary that will protect you, but you have to pay attention.

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Because if you don't pay attention and you ignore that, don't go,

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turn up the phone, block the number, guess what happens without submission?

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Without submission, feeling leads decisions.

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Loneliness overrides wisdom, Red flags, even blaring red sirens,

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red sirens I say because they're police, you know, make a lot of noise,

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red, white, and blue, are ignored.

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Boundaries are lowered. And this is where corruption begins.

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Because once God's instruction is ignored, something else begins to lead.

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One of the greatest challenges in singleness is what?

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Submission versus emotions.

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Emotion can feel like confirmation, but emotion is still not always the truth.

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You can feel connected, drawn, excited, and seen, and still be out of alignment.

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Submission requires you, though, to ask, what is God saying?

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What is God showing me? What is God warning me about? Not just,

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what do I feel? Submission requires a pause.

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Submission often looks like slowing down, stepping back, saying no,

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walking away, hanging up the phone, blocking the number, taking yourself off

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of social media for a while, just taking a total pause.

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Even when you don't want to. This is where many miss it because the moment God

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says pause, the flesh wants to proceed.

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Protection and obedience. There are situations you never enter when you obey God early.

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There are people you never attach to when you listen for the first time.

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There are outcomes that you'll never experience when you honor the warning.

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This is where safety begins.

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Protection does not start in the relationship. it starts before it.

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It starts with submission, obedience, and discernment. Because when you are

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lying with God, you're not easily led into what will harm you.

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Submission is not a restriction. It's a protection.

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It's how God covers you, guides you, warns you, keeps you before corruption

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begins and before destruction has a chance to develop.

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Because once you understand submission, you begin to see something even deeper

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that God has already warned us about in patterns in Scripture.

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Scripture Foundation, God has already warned us.

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What we're witnessing today is not new. It may feel modern.

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It may look different, but the pattern itself is ancient.

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God has already spoken about corruption, destruction, and the consequences of

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misalignment throughout the scripture.

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This is not new information. This is a repeated warning.

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God is not mine.

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The law of sowing and reaping. Galatians 6, 7 tells us, do not be deceived.

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God cannot be mocked. A man reapeth what he sows.

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This is the spiritual law. It cannot be bypassed. It cannot be avoided.

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It cannot be ignored. Every action produces a result.

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What is sown in the flesh produces corruption. What is sown in the spirit produces life.

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This is not punishment. This is the principle. Number two, corruption through

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connection, the influence of relationships.

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1 Corinthians 15, 33, do not be misled. Bad company corrupts good character. This is direct.

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This is very clear. Who you connect with matters, not just physically,

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but spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.

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Connection influences your thinking, your standards, your decisions, your direction.

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Corruption does not always come from within. Sometimes it comes through association.

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Number three, corruption is normalized. The peace found in Genesis, that story.

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2 Peter 2, 6-7 tells us about Sodom and Gomorrah.

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God condemned Sodom and Gomorrah, making them an example of what happens when

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corruption is fully embraced.

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This was not just about sin. It was about a culture that accepted corruption, formalizes immorality,

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ignored righteousness until destruction became inedible.

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And yet, even in that environment, God still made a way of escape for the righteous.

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It's never too late to turn back.

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Number four, when Enoch Weak builds the land, God sees what we ignore.

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Ezekiel 9.9, the sin of people is exceedingly great.

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The land is full of bloodshed and injustice. This reflects what happens when corruption spreads.

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Violence increases, justice decreases, life is devalued.

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God sees what people normalize and what becomes common to society is seen clearly by God.

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Number five, the result of rejection and truth is ignored.

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2 Thessalonians 2 verses 10 to 12 tells us that people perish because they refuse to

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to love the truth and be saved. This is not about lack of access.

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It's about rejection of the truth.

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Truth was available. A warning was given. Opportunity was present.

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But when truth is ignored, deception increases.

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Number six, the pattern is consistent. Across all these scriptures, one thing is clear.

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The pattern does not change. Corruption is introduced.

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It is tolerated. It becomes normalized. It produces destruction and even death.

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This is the same pattern we see today.

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God's love in the warning. And this is where we must not miss the heart of God.

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These scriptures are not written to condemn. They are written to warn because

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warning is an act of love.

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God does not stay silent about what destroys his people. He reveals it. He exposes it.

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He speaks about it so that it can be avoided.

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Because when you understand the word, this is why it matters,

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You recognize the pattern sooner. You respond quicker.

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You avoid what would have harmed you. The word is not just information. It's protection.

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God has already spoken about corruption and destruction.

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He has already revealed the pattern. He has already given the warning.

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The question is not whether God has spoken it. The question is whether we will listen.

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And once we hear the warning, there's only one response that leads to life.

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Turning, repentance, and realignment. How do we break the cycle?

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Healing before connection.

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There's a truth that must be faced with honesty. Many people do not enter relationships

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from a place of wholeness.

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But from a place of wounding. And when wounds are not healed,

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they do not disappear, they repeat.

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Unhealed patterns become repeated patterns. Without healing,

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people often find themselves attracted to the same type of person,

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entering the same type of relationship and experience the same type of outcome.

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Not because they desire harm, because something familiar is still operating beneath the surface.

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You don't always choose what is best. you often recognize what is familiar.

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This is not blame. This is awareness.

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Let this remain clear. No one deserves abuse. No one causes someone else's violence.

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Responsibility for harm always belongs to the one who chooses to harm.

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But awareness is necessary because if patterns are not addressed, they can't repeat.

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The need for a pause. That is why a pause between relationships is not optional. It is necessary.

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There must be time to reflect on what happened, identify what was overlooked,

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hear what was broken, rebuild standards and boundaries.

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Without a pause, people often move forward, still hurting, still vulnerable,

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still carrying the same patterns.

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And unknowingly, they end up with the same situation again. It was not about just abstinence.

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So she had a white sheet wrapped around her

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And she was declaring that she keeps attracting the same type of man, right?

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Just wrapped herself up in a she and she decided that she was not going to be

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sleeping with any more men, right?

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She said, I'm going to stop because I need to heal. And she goes into a long

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sermon about her story and what it means. And it was very, very powerful.

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But what it means is abstinence for one, but more than abstinence.

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This was about separating, healing, and spiritual clarity.

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It is a call for you to break unhealthy soul ties.

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Because you notice that we attract the same people. They're in a different body.

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They have a different name. But yet, don't matter.

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It seems like a pattern. So you develop an unhealthy soul tie,

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but yet it's like it's connected to all the wrong people, right?

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Stepping away from emotional entanglements. It's called for that.

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A call to allow God to restore identity. and a call for you to seeking God before

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entering any relationship.

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Because relationships for an out of loneliness, emotional need,

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unhealed trauma, desire for validation will often lead to misaligned connections.

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I know you heard about soul ties

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and emotional attachments. I want to do a little bit on that right now.

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When connections are formed deeply, especially outside God's order, they do not end easily.

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When you fornicate with someone that was meant for marriage,

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you create what you call a soul tie, whether you want to or not.

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And they can leave behind emotional attachments, patterns of thinking.

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Spiritual connections, and lowering standards.

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You become one with that person, good, bad, or ugly.

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You're getting some of him and you're getting some of her, right? Her, if you

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are a male and you are emotionally attached whether you want to or not.

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And that's why when you break up, you have to separate for a season.

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You cannot fully move forward if you're still connected to what is left behind.

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So you see how that connection is still vital in your heart? It has to be a pause.

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How long is that pause? That's up to you and God.

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What is the hard truth? That no one is exempt.

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She ended up getting involved in a beautiful marriage, beautiful rings,

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beautiful dress, but yet that same spirit was on that man and he was very abusive to her.

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So even teaching this, even with understanding, even with spiritual insight,

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no one is automatically exempt because knowing the truth is not the same as

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consistently walking in it. This is why vigilance is necessary.

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This is why alignment must be ongoing.

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Healing before attachment, that's God's design for women.

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God's way is not. He calls for healing before connection, clarity before commitment.

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Discernment before attachment, because God will not rush you into what you're not ready to discern.

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Why does this matter? Without healing, the same cycle can repeat.

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The same type of connection can reappear. the same outcome can occur.

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But with God, remember we said the enemy goes around as a roaring lion.

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He knows your weakness, right? God knows your weakness too.

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Follow him. He'll tell you. He'll seal that up, put a boundary around you,

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and no one will know and hold you holy until you're married.

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But with God, this pattern can't be broken, right? This pause is not a punishment. It's preparation.

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It's really healing for you because that's why it's so people repeat relationships.

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They say, you can't break up with him. No, because you have a soul tie and it's

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so hard to break up because God meant for marriage, sex to be within marriage,

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and that marriage is a lifetime commitment.

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And when you're doing lifetime commitment activities outside of the covenant

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of marriage, it causes a lot of emotional damage.

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And that's why God said, take a pause so that healing can happen.

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Discernment is restored.

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Patterns are broken. Without it, You may change the person, but not the outcome.

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Now that the pattern has been revealed, now that the warning has been made clear,

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now that the truth has been established through both scripture and real life

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examples, the only one response that leads to life is repentance.

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What does repentance really mean? Repentance is not just saying,

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I'm sorry. It's not just guilt. It's not shameful.

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Repentance means to turn, to change direction, to change your thinking,

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to come out of agreement with what is wrong, what was wrong, to realign with God.

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It's a decision that says, I will not continue down this path.

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This matters because awareness without action does not produce change.

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You can recognize the pattern. You can even see the warning.

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You can understand the truth, but if nothing happens, the outcome will not change.

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Renouncing the world's way of relationships. There must be a clear decision

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to exit the agreement in line with the world's approach to relationship.

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This can include rushing into connections, ignoring red flags,

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prioritizing feelings over discernment,

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and seeking validation instead of alignment. Entering a relationship without healing.

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These patterns may feel normal, but they are not God's design.

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You can walk in both directions. You cannot walk in both directions.

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A decision must be made. You cannot seek God and ignore his instructions.

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Desire protection, but reject his guidance. Ask for clarity, but avoid obedience.

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At the same time, a decision must be made. Will I continue in what I've been

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doing or will I fully turn towards God?

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I want you to pray this prayer with me so that you can walk in alignment with what God has for you.

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And remember, singleness is not a punishment. It's really a blessing.

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You're allowing God to hold you into that and release you to that right person when the time comes.

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But before we do that, we have to repent and turn our heart towards God. So let's pray.

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Father God, you repeat after me. I come before you in humility and truth.

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I acknowledge the areas where I have ignored your voice, moved ahead of your

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timing, and choose connection over conviction. I repent, not just in words, but in direction.

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I turn away from every pattern, decision, and desire that has led me out of alignment with you.

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I renounce the world's way of relationships. I release every unhealthy attachment,

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every emotional tie, and every connection that is not rooted in you.

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Cleanse my heart. Renew my mind.

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Restore my discernment. Teach me to wait.

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Teach me to hear you clearly. Teach me to choose obedience over emotion.

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I submit myself to you fully, and I trust that in my submission,

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you will protect, guide, and keep me. In Jesus' name, amen.

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Let's do some decrees to solidify the prayer

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Repeat after me. I choose God's way over my own. I will not ignore warning signs.

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I will not move outside of God's timing.

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I will not compromise what God has shown me. I walk in discernment. I walk in obedience.

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I walk in alignment with God. What once led to corruption will no longer have access to me.

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What once led to destruction will not be my outcome.

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I choose life. I want you take a few minutes to just answer these questions

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that are just marinating you.

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And take that time just to be honest before God. Have I been ignoring warning

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signs in relationships?

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Have I moved forward when God told me to pause? Am I seeking connection more than I'm seeking God?

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Have I taken time to truly heal from past relationships?

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What patterns do I recognize in my choices?

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What is God asking me to release? What is God asking me to change?

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This is your moment to turn, not later, not when it feels easier, now.

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Because once you see the pattern, you're no longer unaware.

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And once you are aware, you are responsible for your response.

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This is not random. This is a pattern. But patterns can be broken.

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And today, it stops here.

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This was the Diary of a Black Woman podcast.

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I'm your host, Connie Morris. And I just hope that this message has challenged

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you to change, challenged you to submit to God,

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to hear Him, to obey what He has for you, to stay within those safety boundaries

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so that you won't fall into corruption and destruction.

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God desires that you know, that you discern, that you live a long life,

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that you follow a path of righteousness.

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And when you do that and you trust him with your whole heart,

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he will bring your desires to pass.

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But remember, there's a pause. Pause to heal. A pause to break free.

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A pause to look in the mirror and find out your true, true worth.

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That you are valuable. That you are precious.

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That you are marvelously made. You are worth high value, but you need to know

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that. That you are expensive.

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And that's okay to say that. You have value.

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And so I want to close it out, and I want to thank you for listening.

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And if this blessed you, share it with someone, and I'll see you on a new episode. Goodbye.

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Family, thank you for spending this time with me today. To every woman listening

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who has ever felt hidden, overlooked, or pushed aside, I want you to hear me clearly.

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God has not forgotten you, and neither have I.

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That's why I moved everything to our new home on pod page, so you would have

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one place to connect with me, read the devotionals, listen to the podcast,

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and reach out whenever you need to.

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If you want to leave me a message, send an email, or simply find encouragement,

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it's all there at diaryofablackwomanllc.com.

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And if this podcast has blessed you and you want to support the work I'm doing,

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you'll find a buy me, a coffee link on the site as well.

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No pressure, just love and community. Before we leave, I want to speak the word

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that I close with every time because somebody needs this reminder today.

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It comes from Jeremiah 29 11 14.

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I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and

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not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future, then you will call upon

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me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you.

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You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

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I will be found by you, declares the Lord.

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Beloved, God has a plan for your life, a real one, a good one,

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and as long as you keep seeking him, you will find him even from the hidden places. I love you.

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I'm praying for you, and I'll meet you next time.